Going the distance. You like it. You love it. You want some more of it. Sex is desperate for a plateau. That's essentially the ultimate endgame. So if you can find the perfect trigger, so to speak, you're in for one perfect sexual experience. Luckily, that trigger exists.
Path to success. Cory Silverberg is a sex expert who knows about reaching a woman's g-spot. Office and field experience has taught him a thing or two. On About.com, he gave his professional opinion on how to make sex better than it's ever been before.
The investigation. Before a woman is to engage in satisfying her g-spot during sex, she should try to work on it herself a bit first. Once she knows where it is, it'll be much easier helping her partner find the zone. So, ladies, get yourself comfortable and get searching.
Don't be shy. The average set of fingers will do just fine here. Get yourself alone and naked and start exploring. With your index finger (you can include your middle finger, too), curl your fingers inward to get yourself in position. Once there, you'll be that much closer to the hot spot.
Finding the spot. Once your finger is about halfway in, feel around. You should find the area inside the vagina to be a bit bumpy. If you've found this spot, you're in. Give yourself a pat on the back — with your other hand.
Feelers. Get a feel for the g-spot. This is the location that will bring you all of your most intimate pleasures. So don't be shy. Become one with your g-spot and become familiar enough with it to be able to give direction once you're with someone.![]()
Next level fun. Now get those fingers out of there. It's time bring out the real guns. Get yourself a dildo, preferably one that vibrates, so that you're giving yourself the ultimate experience. Now let that explore. This is some new, exciting territory, so don't hold back.
Toys make everything better. Once you've got your toy putting in the work, you need to pilot the torpedo. Move it around. Find out which angles and pressure points give you the most please (and remember this for future reference).
How to stimulate the g-spot. The g-spot is a sensitive enough area, but there are various ways of triggering the ultimate amount of pleasure from it. Applying pressure to the g-spot can be more than enough to get you going, but don't forget the importance of some well-balanced vibration. A vibrator can also do incredible wonders.
Roughness. Using a toy is also a great way to figure out which motions are the most enjoyable. Do you like it rough or gentle? Either way may work, and it's better for you if you find this out before trying it out with someone else.
How to know when it works. When you've found your g-spot you'll know. That's a lazy explanation, admittedly, but you really will know. Your horniness factor will simply skyrocket.
Ignore the strange sensations. According to Silverberg, reaching that plateau of satisfaction may feel a bit strange. Pleasant, sure — but strange. He said, "you'll eventually feel a sensation much like having to pee," but to not let it stop you. That's your orgasm going to work.
What to do next. When you've found your g-spot, that's not the end of the road. It's simply a faster route to O Town — and we're not talking about Orlando. Keep at it and help yourself reach climax easier and easier the more you practice.
Putting it to use. Don't be afraid to be vocal during sex. Let your partner know what feels good. That's what the two of you are trying to achieve in the first place. When you're getting down, speak up.
Differences per person. Everyone is different. Everybody is different. Every g-spot is different. If yours doesn't seem as easy to find or as easy to stimulate, don't get down on yourself. There are so many methods outside of stimulating one's g-spot that will help make sex better than ever — you just need to explore.
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