Denial. "Seriously, orgasm denial. Jerk off as often as possible, but don't cum. Get yourself as close as possible the then stop. Do this over and over for a few days. When you finally came it will blow your mind,” says Reddit user CaptainBipto.
Melatonin. "Lady here. I take 2 melatonin pills about 15 min before I fap. My orgasms are slow to build but extremely intense. A very pleasant surprise when I took melatonin for the first time,” says Reddit user _Messiah_.
Pillow. "The best orgasm i hav ever experienced was achieved simply by rubbing my penis on a pillow. I laid on top and just kind of moved back and forth slightly. It took awhile, but never give up, because it was well worth it. Bonus: Thinking about doing a girl really helps me when i masturbate, and for this time i created a whole sex scenario in my head, that escalated as I did, so it really helped me get off,” says Reddit user Mesues.
Bondage. "Heres a scenario, might be way out there but i like it so wtf: get a small ‘egg' style vibrator and some plastic wrap. Put the vibe on your clit and then wrap the plastic wrap all over your crotch/waist/upper legs so it holds the vibe in place. Do a bunch of layers if youre feeling intense (or all over yourself if you're like me), and go about your business, the fun intense part is you cant stop it immediately once you cum, which can be really crazy good feeling (or can be too intense for some). Its self bondage and forced orgasms (somewhat) all in one fun go,” says Reddit user encaseme.
Explosive. "I spend time getting myself aroused. Usually I'll read things that turn me on or look at pictures or whatever, just to get me going. Then when I'm feeling turned on I'll take time undressing myself, playing with my nipples and running my hands over my body. I like to really take my time and appreciate all the sensations. When I can't wait any longer I'll slowly start teasing my clit with my fingers until I'm really wet. Then I'll dip my fingers inside just a little before going back to my clit, I'll do this for a while building up the pressure and speed until I reach my first orgasm which is usually pretty explosive,” says Reddit user fireworks_hurricanes.
Fantasies. "Relax. Give yourself permission to feel and think about unexpected things- even if you think about something icky or non-politically correct in the moment, it doesn't mean that you're a bad person. So many women have rape fantasies etc while they're masturbating and then feeling guilty about them- as long as they're fantasies, forget about the guilt. Make a big deal out of it sometimes- take yourself,” says Reddit user kimmature.
Erotica. "For fantasy material, I used to always read erotica (mostly from the website literotica, it's free). Visuals don't do it for me. Now I don't need anything except my imagination, mostly just picture having sex with my SO and him saying dirty things to me, pretty lame but it works,” says Reddit user careerofcomposure.
Tease. "I read alot of romance novels and books that will make me blush. If you have sex on the brain all the time you are more open and relaxed, not to mention horny. I like laying on my back legs apart and rock then stoke my toy. It's easier on my knees and you want to relax. The g-spot is on the top of your pelvis and deeper isn't always better. I'm a tease to myself and it works for me. I got an evolve toy recently that makes me squirt every time. I personally need to stimulate my clit as well as the vagina,” says Reddit user valentina21431.
Soft. "Not too crazy but I like getting hard then stop for a minute and let it soften a little. Not so much because I want to delay the end like edging but because I like the slightly soft feeling. Also, when sitting down and position my balls so that on the down stroke I lightly hit them. Not in a painful way but I guess it's pushing that line of pain/pleasure,” says Reddit user DumbBullDoor.
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