Chad explained that women often get too self-conscious during the act. If there’s one thing this guy was sick of seeing, it was girls who really didn’t realize how beautiful they are. He said, “If I’m sleeping with you, you’re fine. I like your body. Mellow out.”
Ryan said that girls need to understand the difference between sex and love. Just because a guy is willing to sleep with you doesn’t mean he’s in love with you - or that he even cares about you. This is especially true with playboys like Ryan, who bemoaned the fact that “girls just don’t get that I can have sex without emotions involved.”
Meanwhile, Jeff had a whole different perspective on love and sex. He said, “I wish girls would realize that guys can catch feelings from sex. It’s possible for a guy to have a hard time differentiating sex and love.” So, maybe the moral is that each guy is different - but that real struggle is finding a guy who sees sex as special.
Bobbie had to confess something. “Every guy masturbates to adult films,” he said. He also made a point to explain that he wished girls would stop making such a big deal out of it, and that girls need to get over the fact that this is what happens. Point taken, Bobbie. Now, pass the tissue.
Tyrese said that it’s all about the intimacy. Tyrese was in a dead bedroom relationship, and his ex couldn’t understand why he needed sex. He explained that what hurt him the most wasn’t actually the lack of an orgasm. He said, “I love sex because it makes me feel wanted and loved. If I wanted to climax, I’d just masturbate.”
Eric said that he wished more girls would be careful with guys’ egos. Eric had a bad experience that involved a girl who started laughing “when she saw Eric Junior.” He explained that he was unable to have sex for months after that. He then added, “If girls knew how fragile our egos can be, I doubt it’d happen.”
Robert just had one request for girls. Apparently, emotions really run high with guys, even when they don’t admit it. They really do need intimacy too. This softie said, “Girls, we’d really like more cuddles. Just because we don’t say it outright doesn’t mean we don’t want it.”
Jose explained that he wished more girls would be adventurous in bed. Jose, like many guys, have fantasies that aren’t exactly the norm. He feels awkward bringing it out to girls, so that might be why he told us, “Please don’t be afraid to initiate kink with us. We want a little adventure, too.”
Jeffrey said that he wished girls would understand what makes good sex great. He said that it wasn’t necessarily about the vagina as much as it was about the passion. Jeffrey then added, “If she’s moaning, grinding, and saying my name, she’s great in bed. Passion is hot!”
Basil said that he wished girls would not feel like they need to compete with past exes. Basil noticed that a lot of girls seem to be worried that they aren’t enough when they find out about his exes or his “number.” It’s not a good look, apparently. He went out of his way to stress, “It’s not about my past! If I’m with you, I want to be with you - not them!”
Kiko said that he’s sick of having to initiate all the darn time. Traditionally, guys are the ones who have to initiate - and most men are sick of having to do it all the time. It’s exhausting and for some shy guys, it’s terrifying. As Kiko put it, “If you want a man to really remember you, make the first move. He’ll love you for it.”
Draco explained that girls need to stop freaking out about men, too. Draco said that the thing most girls don’t seem to understand is that men can have equipment failures, too - and that it doesn’t reflect on them. As he put it, “Just because a man doesn’t orgasm doesn’t mean he isn’t having fun. Relax!”
Aaron mentioned that he wished more girls would be active and communicate during sex. Apparently, there’s a lot of girls out there who don’t do much aside from lay down and let guys hump away. Aaron explained that he often feels awkward having sex with women who don’t move much, and that he “really wished girls would be more active in bed. My pleasure matters, too.”
Kyle noted that guys really do care about a girl’s pleasure. From what he said, it’s usually their number one concern. They want good feedback, and they want to know that they’re doing it right for you. And, sometimes, they just want to give you an orgasm - even if the favor isn’t returned. He explained, “It’s something a man takes pride in, you know?”
Vlad dropped a bombshell on us. “Contrary to popular belief, sex isn’t everything to us,” said Vlad. Apparently, things like emotional security and admiration go a long, long way in making a man feel like a king. Who knew?
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