Oral sex is 100 percent safe. Nuh-uh. While it’d be amazing if oral sex was totally safe, the harsh truth is that going down on your partner can, in fact, give you a sexually transmitted infection (STI). In fact, unprotected oral sex can expose you STIs like herpes, syphilis, gonorrhea, and HPV, to name a few. Uh, yikes.
Oral sex is 100 percent safe."Many of the diseases that can be transmitted from vaginal or anal intercourse can be transmitted from oral intercourse as well," Dr. Benjamin Brucker, an assistant professor of urology at NYU Langone Medical Center in New York, told Cosmopolitan. "No matter what you're doing with someone's genitals, something can be transmitted.” So do yourself a favor, ladies and gents, and wrap it up!
Swallowing semen is dangerous. Say what? Swallowing semen, for the most part, is not harmful — unless, of course, that person has an STI. Otherwise, a man’s swimmers mostly contain some sugars and proteins, and those definitely don’t cause any harm by themselves. In fact, some studies have found benefits to swallowing semen. Next!
Spitting is always safer. Piggy-backing off the previous slide, there’s another common misconception that spitting is somehow safer than swallowing. While spitting instead of swallowing might — keyword: might — lesson your chances of contracting an STI, it isn’t foolproof. Sorry, not sorry.
Spitting is always safer. "If you brushed your teeth before getting intimate with someone, if there's a small cut, there is a potential for transmission of fluids through the skin or through the mucosa of the mouth,” Dr. Brucker told Cosmopolitan. "So even if semen is not swallowed, for example, it certainly can increase the chance of transmission of diseases.” This is why flavored condoms exist, people!
Too much spit during a BJ is a turn-off. What. The. Hell? While it’s true that every man has preferences on just how wet he likes things to be down below, don’t freak out if you feel like you’re drooling all over the place. Slobbering all over his manhood is part of what makes the entire thing feel so damn good. So relax and just get into it.
Oral sex is dirty. If oral sex is dirty, so is any other kind of sex — plus kissing, too. But fortunately, oral sex isn’t dirty. If you and your partner live up to basic standards of hygiene, going down on each shouldn’t be icky. (And on the off chance that you find yourself or your lover sweaty, smelly, or sticky from the day’s work, just jump into the shower together and clean each other off in there...*wink*!)
His whole penis needs to be in your mouth. Nah, girl. NAH. While the art of deep-throating is definitely, well, an art, you don’t need to get the whole penis in your mouth to get him to love what you’re doing down below. Not to mention, some guys aren’t even into DP, so don’t worry if you can’t get it all the way in. Just do you.
His whole penis needs to be in your mouth. In case you need any more reassurance that you don’t need to DP, however, check this out: The most sensitive part of a man’s member is the head, especially at the base of the underside. So, stimulating that area with your mouth and tongue is the most important thing you should do when giving your partner head. Remember that, ladies!
The balls don’t matter. Blasphemy! Mamas, listen up: The balls do matter. A lot. While yes, it’s true, you don’t NEED to technically to do anything with his testicles to get him to orgasm, they shouldn’t be ignored either. Suck on them, lick them, and massage them — just don’t squeeze them.
The balls don’t matter. Think of it this way: Do you like it when your guy ignores your breasts during sex? Wouldn’t you like to have your girls stimulated while he’s up-on-top or hitting it from behind? Exactly. Morale of the story: Don’t neglect the balls. Like, ever.
When it comes to BJs, you have to blow. Whatever you do, never, for the love of all that is holy, blow on a penis as if it were a birthday cake candle. Though we have no idea where the term blow job came from, we are 100 percent positive it has everything to do with licking and sucking and nothing to do with blowing. Trust us on this one.
Pineapple makes you taste better. First thing’s first, your vagina probably smells and tastes exactly as it should: like a vagina. And let’s be clear here: This is not a problem. But if you’re wondering whether or not consuming pineapple is going to make your juices taste sweeter, well... it kind of depends.
Pineapple makes you taste better. To be fair, this myth isn’t totally untrue. From your sweat to your vaginal secretions, bodily fluids can all be influenced by your diet and lifestyle habits. For example, eating lots of pungent foods like garlic and meats can make your juices take on a little more pungent aroma, while eating sweater foods could less to a less aromatic scent.
Pineapple makes you taste better That said, the results aren’t immediate. It’s more about your overall selections of food than that one pre-sex treat. In other words, what you eat definitely does affect how you taste and smell below the belt, but it’s based off your whole diet, not just one meal. Same goes for his semen!
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