Finding out that your partner is cheating can be one of the worst feelings in the world. But have you ever considered what that situation might be like for the other party involved? Probably not, because you’re too busy shooting imaginary laser beams at them with your eyes. But sometimes it’s important to see things through someone else’s eyes, especially when the person your partner was cheating with was just doing their job. Here, 15 sex workers on Reddit confess what it was like to be caught by their client’s significant other
Caught. ”At this strip club I worked at one of the dancers had a daddy that came in legit almost every day he actually was good looking and charming. His wife saw his car in the lot and pulled in and tore past the bouncers and ran into the VIP area. They were back there it came to seconds of them getting caught. She didn't get her tip that day so he tripled it the next time out of guilt,” says Reddit user oceanblunt.
Experiment. ”I walked in on my ex soliciting dudes on Craigslist. I asked him if he wanted to experiment with men and he said ‘I’m not gay, f*** off’ and denied that's what he was doing. Oh, okay then,” says Reddit user feelingofmalaise.
Texts. ”So I was the girlfriend that caught my fiancé soliciting an escort. I found the texts and the link to the Craigslist ad. His reasoning was we had been having problems and he was never attracted to me, we just got along well. I left after that,” says Reddit user I3eeI3op.
Exposed. ”I was the escort. I had a client who I met up with 3-4x a month. After a while he became my only client. We clicked because I have an MA and he was a highly intelligent business owner. His on/off girlfriend discovered some pictures he had taken and found my email information and sent me some messages. She threatened to send said pictures to family members and expose my lifestyle to my day job bosses,” says Reddit user iamarock1.
Married. ”Friend of mine is a male sex worker & massage therapist who mostly sees other males. It's not uncommon to have sessions with married and ::cough:: ‘straight’ guys. One lady found out about her husband seeing my friend (I don't know how) and came down to this place screaming and carrying on, banging on the door, claiming he enticed this guy into homosexuality, etc. oooookay, lady,” says Reddit user kava.
Secrets. ”Not a girl, but about a year ago one of the guys I was seeing paid extra to film a meeting with his phone. Apparently he had never told his wife he was into guys, and he had definitely not told her he was banging one. About a week after our meet I got a text from his number saying it was his wife and to never contact him again. Never did learn if they worked it out or not but I'm guessing it didn't go well,” says Reddit user crack-wolf.
Best friends. ”Had a super tall Jewish fellow who was a regular. Super sweet guy; he was he kind of guy who would bring me food or run errands for me..bring me soup and Gatorade when I was sick.. sometimes just see a movie. Anywho, his wife called from his number and politely asked who I was. I just said I worked for Marriott hotels and wanted to see if she would be interested in a free, all expense paid vacation package, which she immediately hung up (I'm not very creative). I guess she either figured it out or googled my number.. I haven't heard from him in over a year. It sucks, clients can sometimes turn into your best friends, regardless in the nature of the work,” says Reddit user katrik1988.
No ride. ”A regular customer was sitting near our fire place with a dancer on his lap. He's caressing her legs when all of a sudden I see an older lady run in and bee-line straight for them. The stripper manages to jump off him but the lady surprises the man and starts beating the s*** out of him. She's cursing and screaming at him ‘you mother f***** so THIS is where you've been?!’ Bouncers run over and a huge fight ensues. This lady manages to grab his keys and proceeds to run toward the exit and tells him ‘good luck getting home.’ He runs after her and maybe 15 minutes later walks back in with the look of defeat. Nothing a good t**** dance couldn't fix,” says Reddit user kahleesi13.
Calm. ”Hi! Escort here! I have definitely gotten a few calls/emails from SOs. Some very angry, some eerily calm. Once, a lady was very relieved that I was a pro, and it wasn't an emotional affair,” says Reddit user QueerHoe.
Gun. ”Not me, but a friend had been having an affair with a married guy for 9ish month. He said he was leaving his wife, but always came up with an excuse not to do it. Then one day, my friend was staying at his house when the wife showed up early from a business trip. She walked in and pulled a gun, aiming at her husband. This broke out into a huge fight/scramble where I guess the guy tried to tackle her. He failed to pull her down but managed to knock the gun out of her hands. So my friend ran and picked it up and turned to see them screaming and trying to tear each other apart. When the woman saw she had the gun she turned and begged my friend to shoot her husband; saying he was a cheating bastard, etc. My friend just stood there holding it. She said she was tempted, but very quickly chose to walk out, grabbing her clothes on the way. She threw the gun in a dumpster outside their place and drove off, never seeing either of them again,” says Reddit user imagine_magic.
Blocked. ”I worked as a masseuse for a bit. I was never caught per se but I had a good client who came in a few times and he even paid to hang out outside of the establishment. We were friendly and all of our relations were purely business related which he was fine with but one day I got an angry text from a girlfriend/wife/etc threatening to kick my ass. I noped right on out and blocked his number. Never heard from him again,” says Reddit user pack123.
Dancer. ”I’m a dancer at a small little strip club with lots of regular customers. One day it was particularly slow so I decided to text my favorite customer and ask if he'd come see me that night. (Not out of the ordinary) About 20 minutes later he calls me, strange but I pick up anyway. On the phone I hear him muffled in the background and a not too happy female yelling ‘hello? Who the f*** is this?’ He didn't come in that night. Lol,” says Reddit user californiacaptive.
No trust. ”I caught my man sending messages to ads on craigslist while he was away on a business trip. Called and confronted him. He cried over it and felt bad. We are still together and i chose to forgive him. But the trust is very much lacking,” says Reddit user scarletStormFire.
Privacy. ”My ex was the one soliciting for sex on craigslist. There were all kinds of ads including with other men and others with him posing as a ‘Latina female with big breasts’ who wanted to swap pictures (I'm guessing he was going to try to send my pictures as the girl he described himself as sounded just like me). The more disturbing posts where him describing exactly where he was staying and how long he would be in town (truck driver so travels alot.) Those ones for me really felt real and not just posting out of boredom. When confronted he tried to flip it all around on me for violating his privacy,” says Reddit user allthesnacks.
Disgusted. ”Ex phone dominatrix. A caller, hated his wife and wanted to be feminized while talking about what a b**** his wife was and how disgusted she would be at his sissy desires. Once he got caught talking on the phone to me while literally hiding in the closet. Heard his wife say ‘What are you doing in there?!’ My caller yelled back that he was organizing the winter coats while hurriedly zipping up his pants and hanging up on me,” says Reddit user fluffyplague.
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