The Sexual Trend Secretly Growing In Popularity That No One Will Talk About: Prostate Massages

If you’re unfamiliar, a prostate massage is the stimulation of the male prostate gland for sexual purposes.  And as it turns out, this is a sexual trend that's secretly growing in popularity amongst guys -- ones at that.  So, exactly what feels so good about it?  And, how does a guy achieve this sort of mind-blowing pleasure?  Per Reddit, men reveal what they love about prostate massages, and offer tips on how to reach that big O via one.

User “FallingOffALog.” "I've massaged my boyfriend's prostate before, but I don't have one of my own so I can't answer how it feels to be stimulated. As far as locating it, you're actually feeling for something similar in size to a lifesaver candy, with a dip in the middle and everything. My bf doesn't like direct simulation because it's too sensitive, so it works best if I rub around the outside edge of it.”

User “propterfictus.” "I got an Aneros Progasm and followed the instructions, so no one else was involved. I watched p*rn and edged for a long time, like an hour or so. When I couldn't take it anymore, I came so hard I thought I'd had a stroke.

I couldn't breathe when it hit me, literally took my breath away. My eyes were closed tight, but I could see shooting stars and waves of colors in my mind. My heartbeat reverberated in the middle of a rushing sound that seemed to come from inside my head. Ordinarily I catch my ejaculate in my hand as I finish, but I couldn't think enough to even do that and shot all over the bed and floor, some drops as far as five feet away.”

User “lombes.” "The trick is to get right to the edge of orgasm. Google the word Edging and practice getting yourself and keeping yourself on the edge of orgasm. When you do that, your prostate changes shape and becomes accessible, so you or your lady can properly stimulate it.

It also helps to squeeze your a** muscles like you're pushing out a poop, and that squeezing pushes her fingers or the toy against your prostate.”

Anonymous. "If she does it wrong, it hurts, if she does it correctly, it feels great. Really wipes you out, and at least for me, produces a warm tingling that just overwhelms my entire body. The mentality for me, in addition to just knowing that it will feel great, is that 'we are doing something dirty/naughty,’ so I like to play that up a bit.

Also, with respect to doing it correctly, I think the key is to just go slow and be gentle the first time. Finding the right level of stimulation is the key.”

User “spoonerluke882.” "Yea it's incredible physically like imagine the pleasure of c*mming just the whole time then when you eventually c*m....my god the orgasm is ten times harder it's incredible. As for the mental side you don't really think the pleasure is so intense that you can barley speak or think and afterwards you feel so satisfied like you are done, then cuddling in her arms after this is amazing and gives you a look at what it's like after you so has orgasmed.”

User “boynxdor.” "As a guy I can whole heartedly recommend prostate massage as another new level of sexual gratification that most men will never know exists because of their prejudice to ‘gay’ things. I discovered it quite accidentally when I started fooling around with my first boyfriend. Straight guys shouldn't be afraid of their butt or feel their sexuality is threatened once they do enjoy the pleasure it can give.

To my mind it's best to learn prostate play solo. Go buy an Aneros and read up on what to do. It's certainly worth it.”

User “SquishyDodo.” "First girlfriend and I went from virgins to shoving sh*t up each other's a**holes and beating the f*ck out of each other (sexually!). Perhaps that's not the most accurate statement, I put it (finger, tongue, penis, toys) up her butt. She began playing around with me while going down on me. Tickle it a bit, tongue the butthole, pressure on it and such. Eventually she asked if she could put her finger in. She did.

It actually felt pretty good, the old finger-butt bl*wjob. She only ever did it the once and I didn't ask again."

User “JFKush420.” "I had my first a month ago. I am a straight male, but I bought a prostate massager out of curiosity a few years ago. Usually I use it during sex or blow jobs like icing on the cake. I knew you can do it without touching anything, but I never really knew what I was doing because all the feelings are new, vague, and confusing.
So one night I decided to dedicate like an hour to figure it out. Threw on some p*rn, learned I think I found it by rocking my hips up and down while laying on my back on my bed. What ended up happening was it started feeling better, then good, then I felt fully immersed in this 'don't stop' feeling, and I thought I was going to c*m the hardest of my life.”

User “JFKush420.” "It was the most powerful orgasm I've EVER had. I felt like I was on some incredible drug for like 30 seconds, my heart was beating hard, haven't been able to replicate it since but I've only tried once. Is it weird? Yes. Is it worth it? Yes!

I personally use an Aneros Helix.”

user “notoneofyourfans.” "Push in through the anus and up if you are on your back. Kinda like trying to push your belly button out from the inside. Mine is about 3 inches or so inside. When I hit mine it feels sort of like I have to pee for a millisecond. I just stroke back and forth making sure to touch it on each stroke. A vibrating toy makes it easier to hit. The Njoy Pure Wand is a perfect tool for reaching it if you have short arms that get tired...like me. I like prostate play, but I don't like prostate orgasms. They are too strong to enjoy for me, personally."

User “winkwb.” "The times that I've been the closest have been with the help of a little cannabis. Mostly because it aids in relaxation and amps up sensations.

I haven't really tried to just spend 2 hours on it, which is what many of the guys who have achieved a super-O talk about. With family around the house there aren't that many times that I have that kind of private time, but with 30 mins to an hour, I can have some really fantastic orgasms.”

User “AnarchoKinkster.” "It feels a bit like you need to pee. For the first little while practicing this stuff, you might actually think you need to go to the toilet. In time your brain learns to distinguish between feeling your prostate and needing to pee. I'd recommend just using a toy that's ergonomically designed to hit it - I don't really get much luck with just fingers. Your best bet is having a feel around pressing on different areas and seeing if you get the 'need to pee' feeling.”

User “AnarchoKinkster.” "I can't speak for the orgasm cause I haven't got there yet, but even without getting a prostate orgasm you can get awesome waves of pleasure. I had a super powerful prostate-assisted orgasm last week, I was trembling all over and was in a state of absolute physical and mental euphoria for about 30 minutes afterwards. Like ridiculously 'how is this even real' happy. Absolutely amazing times with it."

User “Meanerhitler.” "The best way to do it would be to buy a flexible dildo. If you are a newbie, buy a thinner one, they are quite cheap on amazon or eBay. Aim the dildo towards the front/ belly button area. You'll feel a mix of slight pain and the urge to pee. Once you start poking it with your dildo it feels like you'll piss at any moment but at the same time high on that feeling. It feels pretty damn good. You'll have a much more intense and prolonged orgasm. Definitely douche, you don't want nasty shit everywhere. Also use lots of lube."

User “I_Like_to_say_yes.” "Personally, one finger doing a come hither inside when I'm climbing the mountain feels f*cking amazing. When I'm about to climax and if you finger deeper and faster it feels f*cking amazing, ESPECIALLY when coupled with head and your other hand infront of your mouth going up and down. During climax, I can't stop shaking, and the faster you 'come hither' the better. Honestly, best orgasms I've had were with a finger in my a**."