People Reveal Their Techniques For Casting A Sex Spell With Their Foreplay

What's your go-to foreplay move?  Whether it's oral sex or simply making out, there's no denying that some are hotter than others.  So, what are some  of the sexiest, naughtiest pre-romp favorites?  Per Reddit, men and women reveal how to cast orgasmic spells with your foreplay moves for a steamy session!

User “EquallyCool.” "Kissing each other's skin with vigor is great and all but foreplay with foresight is my favorite. Next time you're out to dinner, tell her she's going to be licking herself off your fingers as soon as you get her alone, then call the waiter over and order your entree.”

User “34dCultureKid.” "When we are making out (standing up), as I get hard I grab her ass and kind of pull her pelvis towards me which causes my boner to rub between her legs. This seems to work pretty well, but our height difference is perfect for this and probably wouldn't work if the two of you aren't perfectly aligned.

Besides that, I love going down on her but teasing her by kissing and licking around the vulva (thighs and such) for a while until she's practically begging for me to lick her.”

User “Greenlightideas.” "Make a peace sign with your hand. Slowly trace that v down from between her breasts all the way down to her clit. Let it rest somewhere between your middle knuckles and the web of your fingers depending on how much pressure she likes. Use the length of your fingers to slightly hold her lips open; again how much is up to her. Now you can tease her like crazy by shaking your hand left and right.

This causes a lot of indirect stimulation; I usually do this right before sex to make initial contact that much more intense for her. Vary speeds and pressure every once and awhile to keep her guessing too.”

User “mindblowingo.” "Just figure out what she likes and pay attention to her reactions. Repeat the things she likes, don't repeat the things she doesn't. Sounds obvious but you'd be surprised how often people don't follow these rules.”

User “mindblowingo.” "Body massage.. full body.. legs arms head feet hands everything both sides. Don't focus on her ‘sex' parts yet. Make her really want you to go there before you even consider it... then make her wait a little longer.”

User “mindblowingo.” "Try teasing her with everything you do. During make out session, slow down when she seems to be really worked up and back off a little when she lunges toward you. Nibble on your lip when she's trying to attack you with her tongue. A little sexy teasing will make her really want it fast.”

User “sheilastretch.” "The Initiator

A friend of mine used this one [on] me, and years later I still get turned on just remembering it.

He started off with all the normal stuff other people here are suggesting: sexy talking and flirting ahead of time, kissing, caressing, boob grabbing, gently rubbing his body against mine. Then he slid one of his thighs between mine and pressed it gently against my clit. I had no idea what was even happening, but as he rubbed/rocked his thigh against my clit and labia, it just drove me absolutely wild with the need to be f*cked. Right f*cking then!

Later on, after sex was over and we were all just chilling out, and my SO asked about specific moves/techniques. Our friend fessed up and said it was the move he usually used to seal the deal.”

User “gaelen33.” "Something that really gets me going is if the dude just stops for a second and looks at me, making it obvious he enjoys what he sees. Maybe a little groping or caressing after to show how much he wants to touch me and take me, and I'll be putty in his hands :)”

User “gaelen33.” "Personally I love anything rough. Throw me down, push me against a wall, pull my hair, whatever, that shit makes me wet instantly. I'm not turned on by being eaten out. It's nice, but doesn't really do much for me. However, giving head is always a turn on for me. As others have said, it really comes down to personal preference. But I'm going to go out on a limb and say that the majority of women will be turned on by a little kinky roughness. Ooh and growling.. a man who has a deep growl is the sexiest thing in the world.”

User “FurryUsSquirrel.” "Nibbling on her ears, trailing kisses from her jaw bone down to the clavicle slightly nibbling along the way, trailing kisses to each nipple and playing with them with both my mouth and hands, and kisses all the way down, and initiate oral. Basically kissing her everywhere and trailing kisses wherever I'm going.”

Anonymous. "Make her beg for more touching. I think a lot of guys have the tendency to dive right in. It's nice to get all worked up before anything happens. Touch her everywhere but her vulva, slowly and lightly. When she says she wants it, say 'no. you're not ready.’"

User “Salsadips.” "There is no magic combo. Everyone is different and different things work for different people. Good communication is the best way to find out what your partner digs.”

User “lazygerm.” "When I'm giving [oral sex] as foreplay, and it's coated with my saliva... I start licking and sucking just the head whole, and rubbing my wet finger or two from his frenulum to the bottom of his shaft quickly. The guys I'm with loves it.”

User “whale_snail.” "no seriously, nothing works everytime but some old time favourite go to are: talk dirty. not kidding, it's often insightful into what your partner really wants.

start early, and often. like when you're at the grocery store with your hand on your partners back. slip a finger under the material and gently tickle their lower back etc.

after some initial pashing and grinding work your way down, around the body kissing finishing up with slowly making your way around the inner thighs then proceed into some oral, keeping it mostly teasing for the first few minutes at least. then oral. then sex. as close to an 'always works' as it gets IMO."

User “sadqueer.” "I trick I learned from this ‘straight' guy I hooked up with back in high school was: if you want to avoid having your teeth graze his penis, put your tongue over you bottom row of teeth and your top lip over your top row of teeth. Other than that, if you blow him, make sure youre doing something with both hands like stroking his d*ck with one hand and playing with his balls with this other, stuff like that. I know this isn't really anything new or different, but it might help, best of luck anyway.”