Female Orgasms: Separating Truth From The Complete And Utter BS

It's time to test your knowledge! Not of history or of geography or mathematics, but of the vagina and the female orgasm! (Fun test, huh?) You may think you're a master at sex, but you might be about to have your illusions shattered. Things you may have been told about the female sexual experience just aren't true. It's time to clear the air and set the record straight. The more we all know about the female orgasm, the more of them there will be! And that is nothing but a good thing.

Time to get your facts straight. If you truly want to make sex as enjoyable as possible, both for you and for her, then you need to listen up and listen well. There are some prevailing ideas out there that are just plain false and it's time to correct those notions. The female orgasm is important and must be properly discussed and handled!

Orgasm is the only goal during sex. Is it a good goal to have? Of course! Is it the only thing you should be reaching for? Of course not, dummy! Sex should not just be a one-dimensional experience. While an orgasm would be great, it doesn't always happen, so don't just focus on that. Instead, focus on making sure she feels taken care of and pleasured in various ways. Don't just make a beeline for the orgasm. Hang around a while and enjoy!

Men enjoy it more than women do. There is some sort of stigma still floating around out there that men think about sex, desire sex, and enjoy sex more than women do. Not true! Don't be surprised if you meet a woman who has a higher sex drive than you do.

Women have multiple orgasms all the time. False, sir! True, women do have the wonderful and amazing ability to have multiple orgasms in one given sex session, but that doesn't mean it always happens. Sometimes one orgasm doesn't even happen.

Reaching orgasm for women is just as easy as it is for men. We don't know why men still think this, but we're willing to bet that selfishness and a lack of empathy and understanding has something to do with it. Let's break it down. Men and women are biologically different. Their sexy parts are different. So, getting each sex to orgasm and each sex's type of orgasm is different! It may be super easy for guys to finish, but women take a little more effort.

Women don't get off on casual sex. Emotional sex is great, but sometimes women, like men, just want that fun, physical release. Women can do the casual thing, too. For some reason, a lot of guys think that a woman is too emotionally fragile and clingy to be able to have casual sex. Nope. Be in bed by tonight and get out by morning. Thank you!

Everything you need to know can be learned from movies or adult films. If you seriously think this, you must still be in eighth grade. We can't think of another reason why you would think this is acceptable. Real sex is very different from the movies. Acting is, uh, not real! Instead of investing your time and research in the fake thing, spend time investigating the real woman in front of you.

She's going to squirt every time she orgasms. The female orgasm is not like the male orgasm. Just because a male experiences ejaculation when he orgasms, doesn't mean a woman will squirt all over the place like you see in some adult movies.

It's all about penetration. No, no, no, no, no. Yes, penetration can lead to female orgasm, but the odds are not in your favor here! What does greatly improve your chances of getting her to orgasm is clitoral stimulation. If you really want to get her off, stimulate the clitoris or combine clitoral stimulation with penetration.

If it feels good for you, it feels good for her. Really, really big mistake. This is by far one of the most popular assumptions guys make and by far one of the worst assumptions guys make. Just because you're enjoying a particular position, doesn't mean it's getting her off. It might not be hitting her in the right spots. Listen to what she has to say and be open to her suggestions.

She doesn't need a sex toy if she has you. Someone's a little full of themselves, aren't they? Guess what, pal, even if you're a sex god (which, honestly, we doubt) there are still multiple ways a woman can and wants to be satisfied. If she's interested in exploring new options, like bringing a toy into the bedroom, don't take it as an insult.

She'll be fine with the usual positions. The Kama Sutra exists for a reason, folks. There is also a reason why there are literally thousands of articles online about different sex positions to try and what each one does. Switch your game up! Missionary, missionary, missionary gets boring, boring, boring.

Your need to climax comes before hers. There are way too many selfish lovers out there. It should be 50/50 when it comes to sex. It should be a priority to make sure she enjoys your sex every time as much as you do. Do you ensure that that happens? Do you ask her what she likes and do you make it happen? If not, you have some work to do.

Why so many myths? Even as we make it further into the 21st century, so many myths and false notions about the female orgasm and about female sexuality still persist. This is probably primarily because, for one, people aren't being properly educated about sex. For another, people aren't listening to women!

It's up to you. Do you want to be mediocre at best or do you want to legitimately rock her world? If you're aiming for mediocre, stick with your myths and your poor sex habits. She'll probably leave you anyway. If you want to hit it just right, study up.