She Says She “Needs Space”? Here’s What To Do

How To Get Her Back When She Says She “Needs Space”–Can You Guess This Expert-Approved Solution?

Women can be so hard to understand sometimes.

Take the concept of “needing space” for example:

WTF does that even mean?

Sure, if a girl says she “needs some space”… it might mean she just wants some more alone time… but what if she says she “needs some space,” but means something else entirely?

Is there a way to get her back? Is it even possible?

That’s what I want to talk about today.

Hi, I’m Glenn Pearce–and as part of my new series, Ask Glenn, I’m answering all of your most difficult, burning questions that keep you up at night.

And today, I’m answering this one:

“What does it mean when a girl says she ‘needs space’?”

Catch The Full Video Transcript Below…

OK, our next question is from Kyle. And before I even answer it, Kyle, man, you’re probably not gonna like my answer.

Kyle says:

Hey Glenn, I have a problem with this girl–let’s call her ‘Sarah.’ I was with her for 15 months and the sex was great.

We both like sci-fi movies and other similarly nerdy things. Out of the blue last week, she says that she needs some space and wants to slow things down.

WTF man? I’m 28 and she’s 25, if that makes a difference. This girl is perfect for me–I know we’re meant to be together.

So how can I get her back?

I’ve seen enough of your videos that my guess is that you’ll tell me to move on, haha. But what if I have a reason to believe that she wants to get back with me?

Her friends have told me that. So how do I go about getting this wonderful woman back?”

Alright, Kyle. Here’s my advice:

What She REALLY Means When She Says She “Needs Space”…

First of all, Kyle, you’re pedestalizing this wonderful woman.

Kyle, you’re saying the sex was great. But Sarah’s not here–I would love to hear what she has to say about the sex. OK?

Now, here’s the part you’re not gonna like, and it might make you sick to your stomach. But I’m here to give you the honest truth.

When a woman says she “needs space,” and it’s out of the blue, then she’s probably been cheating on you.

Almost guaranteed, she’s been sleeping with somebody else. And this guy now takes precedence over you.

Because the truth is, women rarely leave a relationship without a backup plan.

The #1 Reason Women Rarely Leave Relationships Without a Backup Plan…

At the end of the day, women are very emotionally unstable. And they get self-worth from the attention that men give them.

So it’s very rare–even if she’s a wonderful woman–it’s very rare that a woman will walk away from a 15-month relationship out of the blue and not have another man in her life.

I know women. Trust me–this girl is probably sleeping with somebody else.

She’ll tell one story to some of her friends. Like she’s gonna say, “Oh, well you know, I don’t know… I’m only 25, I think I need to grow more as a woman.”

And then she’s gonna have another set of friends who are very close to her–these friends know the real truth. OK?

Not only that, but you don’t know if her friends are telling you the truth.

So her friends are probably just trying to make you feel good.

Is It Possible to Get Her Back?

So what I would do is–you guessed it–tell you to move on.

You could even go out and f**k a bunch of girls, and then make sure Sarah finds out about it. Make sure her friends know too.

But maybe you guys aren’t meant for each other at this point in your life. In that case, it’s best to ignore her.

However…

If you really want to know, once and for all, if she truly “needs space”… or is just lying to you…

…Then I do have one more trick up my sleeve.

Here’s what it is:

5 “Last Chance” Texts to Get Her Back…

If you’re dead-set on getting her back… then I do have one final technique up my sleeve for you:

It’s this list of 5 texts that tend to get an almost-immediate reply (usually within 2-3 minutes)… and seem to rekindle a woman’s sexual interest in you.

But be warned! These texts are somewhat controversial… and I do NOT recommend them for “everyday” use.

(That’s because the more you use them, the less powerful become. So it’s best to save them for these “last resort” situations.)

So if a woman has told you that she “needs some space”… or if she’s behaving in a really confusing way… or if you think you may lose her soon…