When it Comes to Kinky Sex Ideas, More & More Women Are Opening Up–Would You Try This Naughty Sex Move?
Kinky sex has experienced an explosion in popularity over the last few years.
Thanks in part to books like 50 Shades of Grey, it’s now much less “taboo” to experiment with new positions…
Toys…
And, of course, things like roleplay and BDSM.
However, one new study has discovered that more and more people are experimenting with another kind of kinky sex act… and it’s probably not what you think.
The Bizarre Kinky “Sex” Act That She Might Secretly Want To Try…
This may shock you a little… but the kinky sex act in question has nothing to do with touching your partner.
Quite the opposite, in fact:
It’s all about touching yourself, while your partner is present.
A poll of over 2,000 people conducted by TENGA (a company that sells sex toys) found that–of the people currently in relationships–a whopping 51% had masturbated with their partner present.
Masturbation is commonly thought of as something you do alone, in private… and in fact, many guys assume their partners prefer if they don’t masturbate with them around.
So what exactly is going on, and what does it mean?
Well, before I jump into that, let’s dive a little deeper into the numbers.
Of those who had masturbated in front of their partner, 68% said that having their partner watch was “extremely pleasurable.”
On top of that, more than 10% of all people polled said they had touched themselves while talking on the phone or over Skype. So it seems like there are quite a few of us sharing in the solo action.
But why would a woman agree to masturbate in front of you–or watch you masturbate in front of her–in the first place?
3 Sexy Reasons She Might Be Down to Masturbate in Front Of You…
There are a lot of reasons why the woman you’re with might want to masturbate in front of you–and not all of them are obvious.
Other than fulfilling the classic “voyeur” fetish, which may be more of a niche desire than what this study is getting at, there are three key reasons why she might be interested in going solo while you’re watching.
Here’s what they are:
1) She Can Show You What She Likes
The most obvious reason she might want to–or at least be willing to experiment with–touching herself in front of you is so she can show you exactly what she likes.
Because the truth is, even if you’re a “sex god,” and can give her the kind of pleasure most men only dream about… chances are you aren’t going to push her buttons as well as she can push her own.
So this could give her the opportunity to show you how she likes to start building up her physical pleasure… exactly how she wants you to escalate (like, for example, if she prefers more clitoral or vaginal manual stimulation)… and what she likes when she’s on the brink of orgasm.
For a lot of women, speaking up about how they like to be touched can be a point of stress. And that causes a lot of women to be quiet about what they want. As a result, she may not be getting the pleasure she needs to enjoy sex with you.
This gives her an easy, low-pressure, and super-hot solution.
2) It Puts Her In Control (AKA Makes Her Feel Hot)
On top of being able to show you what she likes, the experience of having you watch her without being able to touch her will also give her a new sense of control.
And for a lot of women, this is extremely sexy.
Why?
Well, it’s all about the dominant-submissive relationship.
Most women are used to the man taking “control” in the bedroom… which can be really hot! But at times, it can also feel boring.
By allowing her to give herself this kind of pleasure in front of you, without you being able to experience it beyond the visual, she is effectively “teasing” you.
Watching you watch her may, depending on your reaction, cause her to feel her more desired… and that will turn her on more than just about anything else. Trust me.
3) It’s an Easy Way to Spice Things Up
Finally, a woman might be down to touch herself in front of you simply because she hasn’t tried it before.
Most people hear the word “sex,” and instantly think penetration–this presents a new way to experience sex that’s both completely novel and also stimulating.
“How is it stimulating if I’m just supposed to sit there and watch her?” You may be wondering…
But think about this:
Watching her touch herself in front of you is basically like a free porno–and is probably a lot higher-quality than most of the stuff you’ll find online anyway.
Not to mention, it’s also a great way to ease into even more hardcore kinks, like roleplay, and other BDSM techniques.
Speaking of which…
If you like the idea of this kind of kinky sex… and you’d like to ease into it with the next woman you take home… then you’ve gotta check this out ;-):
Her #1 Kinky Fantasy (68% of Women Secretly CRAVE This)…
A recent study discovered that over half of women have a dirty little secret….
It’s a naughty sexual fantasy, about what we wish you’d do to us in bed (but are often too afraid to ask for). 
That’s right… most women are laying in bed at night… feeling sexually unsatisfied… touching themselves to the thought of a man who REALLY knows how to unleash our “wild side”…
Because the truth is, most guys are too “gentle” with us during sex… which is fine sometimes (like on Valentine’s Day)… however…
A lotta the time, we crave something else entirely… and the guys who can satisfy our secret sexual craving?
They’re the guys we keep coming back to for more… and more…. And *OMG* I’m getting kinda turned on just thinking about it right now lol…
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