MY mind is never on the job when I have sex with my husband. I can’t switch off.
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I’m thinking about the food shopping, what to put in my kids’ sandwiches or when to book a hair appointment. Life feels so chaotic.
I can’t reach orgasm and I’m sure it’s because I can’t relax.
My husband gets frustrated with me so I tell him to just get it over with because it’s never going to do much for me. We are both 37.
DEIDRE SAYS: You owe it to yourself and your husband to enjoy the fun things in life, like sex and just being together.
Write lists of things you need to do each day and be sure to start actually doing the most important.
What you don’t get done by 9pm goes on to the list for the next day.
From then onwards is your time – to take a bath, light a candle and just relax.
My e-leaflet Creating A Sexy Mood explains more.
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