Thursday, June 27, 2019

US Doc Finds Anatomical Evidence for the Elusive G-Spot

A doctor has found anatomical evidence for the “G-spot,” or Gräfenberg Spot, the elusive erogenous zone that is said to bring on powerful vaginal orgasms and in some cases female ejaculation when stimulated in some women.A gynecology professor says that he has found anatomical evidence for the “G-spot,” or Gräfenberg Spot, the elusive erogenous zone that is said to bring on powerful vaginal orgasms and in some cases female ejaculation when stimulated in some women.
In the latest study, published on Wednesday in The Journal of Sexual Medicine, Dr. Adam Ostrzenski conducted a seven-hour postmortem dissection of an 83-year-old female cadaver and found a “well-delineated” sac-like structure that could stretch from 8.1 to 33 millimeters. 
After examining the six different layers of tissue that make up a woman's vaginal wall, researchers found in between the fifth layer (endopelvic fascia) and  the sixth layer (dorsal perineal membrane) a less than one centimeter wide sac enclosing bluish grape-like clusters of fibroconnective structures that looked like erectile tissues.
"This study confirmed the anatomic existence of the G-spot, which may lead to a better understanding and improvement of female sexual function," Ostrzenski said. 
The editor-in-chief of the journal of which the study was published, Irwin Goldstein, said Ostrzenski’s finding "adds to the growing body of literature regarding women's sexual anatomy and physiology."
The existence of the G-spot, named after the German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg who first proposed its presence in the 1950s, is still highly controversial within the scientific community. 
Many experts disagree over the G-spot’s existence as a distinct structure, definition and location, and research on the topic has been largely subjective or contradictory. 
Critics of the latest study said that Ostrzenski does not offer a definitive conclusion to the G-spot debate because it was based on a single cadaver.
"It's a single case study involving the dissection of the body of one woman whose sexual experiences are unknown to us," sex researcher Debby Herbenick wrote in a Daily Beast commentary on the study.
"Did she enjoy vaginal penetration? Did she find G-spot stimulation to be pleasurable or erotic or more or less likely to lead to orgasm? We don't know," Herbenick wrote.
Herbenick also pointed out that it was impossible to tell how many women have structures like the one described in the 83-year-old cadaver, and it was also unclear if the bluish and grape-like structure documented in the study was even associated with G-spot stimulation, sexual pleasure and orgasm. 
An Italian study, also published by The Journal of Sexual Medicine in 2008, researchers concluded that the G-spot does exist but only in some women who have it, after conducting an ultrasound to scan the vaginal area on nine women who reported to experience vaginal orgasms and 11 who reported they did not.

Women Report They're Not Having Sex As Much As They'd Like

WomanWomen don’t want sex as much as men do. Women need an emotional connection to enjoy sex. Women don’t have multiple orgasms. Everyone’s heard these stereotypes about women and sex — some of which hold true. But according to a recent study conducted by fertility app Kindara, the majority of them are just flat out wrong.
Kindara asked 500 women questions relating to common sex stereotypes, including the importance of an emotional connection; what, if any factors impede their sex life; and how often do women desire sex. The survey found that 53.2 percent of the women did not have sex as often as they would like. Almost three quarters of the respondents said they’d like to engage in sexual activity more than three times per week, and 13 percent of respondents reported wanting sex more than even six times per week.
When it came to reaching orgasm, many women reported being able to more than once per sexual encounter: About 72 percent of women reported reaching orgasm at least once during every sex act, and 10.2 percent of all women said they reach orgasm multiple times. These findings are significantly different than the 1994 study that found 75 percent of men and 29 percent of women always have orgasms with their partner. According to Kindara, the last twenty years have yielded a bit more equality in terms of sexual pleasure.
Sometimes things don’t go as planned though, based on what women reported as far as the factors that take the biggest toll on their sex lives. Stress was considered the primary culprit of low female libido, followed by being out of sync with a partner, not being in the mood, and struggling with self-image. “Other” was also an option 15.4 percent of women chose, which shows that sexual interactions can be complicated by a multitude of things, such as being in a long-distance relationship, taking medication that affects libido, and recovering from trauma.
One stereotype, however, did hold up: About 53 percent of women agreed that an emotional connection was the most important aspect of good sex, just ahead of foreplay and communication.
This research demonstrates the ever-changing landscape of women’s sexuality, and definitely breaks down a few traditional views that just aren’t valid anymore. The most important take away may have simply been, if not obviously this: women want more sex.

Wednesday, June 26, 2019

5 Best Sex Positions to Achieve Orgasm

Orgasms aren't instant or guaranteed for any woman, but certain sex positions can help you on your quest to achieve a mind-blowing orgasm with your partner. Here are 5 of the best...
Don't you just hate it when you watch ‘screen sex scenes' and you witness an actress have a mind-blowing orgasm in a matter of minutes? Every woman knows that big O's don't work like that, and what's worse, there are delusional men all over the world getting it wrong because they don't know any better.
It's time to take matters into your own hands and initiate the sex positions that are going to work for you all the way to climax.

#1 You On Top

I'm not going to sugar coat it ladies – you are all responsible for your own orgasms from now on! If you don't know how your own body works, then how on earth do you expect your man to know? If you want to have great sex then you need to make sure you are participating, and this doesn't mean lying on your back and waiting for the earth to move as he puffs and pants above you.
Woman on top is the easiest way for most women to achieve climax during sex because of the freedom and control the position allows. You can use this freedom to control the depth, pace and angle of penetration to suit your pleasure.
Being on top isn't all about the bounce though, you really have to know how to ride a guy. If you want to achieve orgasm in this position it has to be all about your pleasure, so focus on tensing all the right muscles in your legs and vagina as you thrust him in and out of you. Or rotate your pelvis in a circular motion for a completely different sensation.
TIPS: Try to let the power of this position turn you on mentally, and encourage your partner to enhance your pleasure by manually stimulating your erogenous zones. Your body will be one hundred per cent open for play, so there's no excuse for him not to be tweaking those nipples and rubbing that clit!
Also, if you turn around so that you are facing away from him the angle of your vagina will allow his penis to hit your G spot. Use constant firm strokes to stimulate it! And don't be adverse to a bit of anal stimulation if he's up for it

#2 Him On Top

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The popular opinion is that the missionary position is dull and predictable, but I beg to differ ladies. Just because it is the most obvious, it doesn't mean you should knock it. The missionary is the most natural sex position for a reason you know?
The intimacy of the Missionary position can be a big turn on, especially if you allow your mind to absorb all the wonderful feelings of his body brushing up against your nipples, his nose nuzzling into your neck, his thighs pushing up against your bum… often it is easy to just focus on the pleasure going on between your legs, but if you expand your focus to all the other little pleasures that are happening at the same time, you will undoubtedly work yourself up into an orgasmic frenzy of desire!
TIPS: A pillow underneath your hips will make a significant difference. It will raising your knees, and allow him to penetrate more deeply. Alternatively you can lay your legs flat and closed on the bed with him inside of you, and tense your vaginal PC muscles every time he thrusts, to help elevate you towards your climax, and give him the pleasure of a much tighter fit and the pleasant sensation of being ‘sucked in'.

#3 Do It Doggy

There's something incredibly ‘animal' about this position. Personally I love being taken from behind. I have no idea why it feels so raw and ravishing!
Many women don't like the idea of being on all fours with a man pounding away behind them because it feels kind of impersonal, not to mention a tad pornographic, which makes some of us feel uncomfortable. I know exactly what you mean! That's why I prefer it if I am leaning up against the back of a sofa or on the floor leaning up against the side of the bed when he's coming in from behind, because it's easier for him to get close up to my body and hold me. It's also slightly more dignified and flattering than bent over with your ass sticking up in the air!
This is also the perfect position for G Spot stimulation girls, so give it a go if you want to try for a deep reverberating orgasm… Try different angles until it starts to feel like it's going somewhere…
TIP: If he reaches his hands around to play with your clitoris and nipples in this position then your chances of climax are going to shoot right up!

#4 The Rocking Horse

Essentially this is a sitting position, where he sits in a lotus pose with his legs crossed, and you sit kneeling on top of him. It works best when he leans backwards using his hands for support and you thrust your body towards him so that your torsos are aligned, and he rocks gently with every thrust.
Why does it feel so good?
Well, aside from the angle of penetration allowing his penis to rub against your front vaginal wall, you also get delicious friction on the outside for your clitoris, and you can even get stimulation for your nipples when you rub your body against his chest.
TIP: By tensing the muscles in your thighs and vagina as your thrust you will increase your chances of orgasm.

#5 Spooning

The best morning sex position in my opinion! Why? Well for starters you don't have to breathe all over each over if you're not one for morning breath, which can be distracting to say the least. It's also a comfortable and relaxed position, with him embracing and entering you from behind as you lie in bed side by side.
He can lean away from you to give a deeper and more sensual kind of penetration, or cuddle you and play with your erogenous zones for closer, more intimate feel.
TIP: To spice it up and make spooning a bit edgy get him to rough up and perhaps pull you towards him with your hair, or hold your face firmly with his hands as he bites into your neck. The rough approach will excite you and send all the right pleasure signals to your erogenous zones, increasing your chances of reaching that much needed climax.

9 Ways to Have a Mind Blowing Orgasm Every Time

146905322The female orgasm is a very ‘tricky' thing. Sometimes you can have great sex without it, and sometimes you experience it with minimal effort. However, it is impossible to miss it! If you want to try this, all you need to do is follow the instructions below.

#1 Doggy Style

Do it doggy style and let your partner penetrate deep inside so that with every movement his penis stimulates the G spot. This additional incentive will enlighten you.

#2 Muscles Contract

If you feel that the atmosphere is heating up over tighten vaginal muscles, then relax and repeat everything several times. The movement creates intense friction with his penis, which will accelerate the path to the point of no return.

#3 Let Him Satisfy You Orally

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Let your partner use his tongue to stimulate your clitoris while using fingers the entire time. This combination works perfectly, because he will feel like a man who is completely controlling you, and you'll also benefit from this routine.

#4 Circulation at the Top

When you are on top tilt back and forth in a circular motion. When you feel that you are close, ask your partner to penetrate you deeper, to further stimulate your clitoris. It will certainly be a trigger that will help you have an orgasm.

#5 Cuddling Clitoris

While in the missionary position, let him hold your thighs, keeping them spread out, and then cuddle your clitoris. You will have an incredible feeling and a stronger orgasm until your body feels that it will burst at any moment.

#6 Raise Your Legs

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While your partner is on top, lift up your legs and place your feet near his shoulders. This angle will allow his penis to meet your clitoris while penetrating you at the same time. Stay in this position for some time and you will have an explosive orgasm.

#7 Touch Your Nipples

Don’t neglect your nipples on the way to the big O, they will in fact be of much assistance. Massage them, press them, do with them whatever you like. This will further help you experience the explosive finale.

#8 Little Pussy Cat

Imagine that he is a great guy, and you are a small pussy cat -Let him enter you while lying on one side, and you should use his hands all the time so they touch your clitoris. The orgasm achieved by this method is one of those experiences you’ll remember.

#9 The Dirty Talk

Whisper his dirtiest fantasies to the point of penetration. Hearing those dirty words will get him to the point of no return – but he won’t forget to take you with him.

Thursday, June 20, 2019

How incredible sex can completely wipe your memory and leave you with short-term amnesia

IT turns out that 'mind-blowing' sex can be a very literal phenomenon, as research reveals that top-notch romps can be so good that they wipe your memory completely.
An unbelievable study has cast light on one of the least sexy side-effects you can end up with after some quality time in the bedroom: amazing sex can give you amnesia.
 For some people, mind-blowing sex can be so good that they can't remember it
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For some people, mind-blowing sex can be so good that they can't remember itCredit: Getty Images
A little-known condition called "global transient amnesia" affects fewer than seven people in every 100,000, causing of a sudden, but temporary, loss of memory in the sufferer.
The temporary memory loss can be triggered by a number of stimulating events, including jumping into freezing water, knocking your head, medical procedures... and incredible sex.
For most people with the condition, sexually-induced amnesia is only fleeting, but for some people it can be a terrifying experience lasting for hours.
 The condition is caused by repeated stimulation, and can wipe sufferers' memories completely ,
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The condition is caused by repeated stimulation, and can wipe sufferers' memories completely ,Credit: Getty Images
According to Time, those affected can't remember recent events or form new memories, and may not even remember the mind-blowing sex they just had.
The memory loss is caused by "neurological stimulus of a repetitive nature", which essentially short-circuits part of the sufferers brain.
 Have you ever had such amazing sex that you lost your memory
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Have you ever had such amazing sex that you lost your memoryCredit: Getty Images

Do you think it’s too explicit? Mums are furious about this child’s sex education video

PARENTS aren't happy about these extremely graphic sex education videos which are being shown on national television in Norway.
'Newton' is a science show aimed for eight to 12-year-olds and it's hosted by a doctor called Line Jansrud but mums and dads aren't happy with her teaching technique.
 Parents are not happy with a new sex education show in Norway called 'Newton' hosted by Line Jansrud
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Parents are not happy with a new sex education show in Norway called 'Newton' hosted by Line Jansrud
Line covers a whole range of topics, including French kissing, hickies, the science behind orgasms and she narrates over a simulated masturbation demonstration.
A lot of her videos include props to help visualise what she's talking about, such as a tomato, a vacuum and sometimes even real life models.
 Parents have been left unimpressed with Line Jansrud's method of teaching as she uses props like tomatoes to demonstrate French kissing
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Parents have been left unimpressed with Line Jansrud's method of teaching as she uses props like tomatoes to demonstrate French kissing
But some parents haven't been impressed with Line's teaching, one woman wrote on Facebook "My not happy or comfortable with this as a parent doesn't effect the science.