"Mystery Is a Good Thing"

"There's no need to impress me," Melissa Haro says, which sounds kind of ridiculous coming from a jet-set lingerie model. But that's just her point: Women don't want to be with men who do things just to win their attention. They see that and assume they'll never learn who you really are. "I just want a man who's comfortable in his own skin," Haro says. Comfortable? We can do that. Skin? Here are ways to have her showing more.

Groceries are sexyWhen Haro enters a man's home, she checks out the kitchen. "I love to find a stocked fridge. It shows he can take care of himself." And have a recipe ready: A home-cooked meal is more impressive than a fancy restaurant, she says.

Save some for laterShe looks good in a tiny tee. You look like you're trying too hard. "Mystery is a good thing, guys," says Haro. "A man in a Speedo doused in baby oil is a turnoff. Throw on some board shorts and have a good time."

Crowd in with herBringing her to a concert would be fun. But to really impress her, know where in the club she wants to go, Haro says. Some women want the intimacy of the balcony. "But I love to rock out," she says, "so lead me to the front, where the sound will pound my eardrums."

Class it upCorvettes rev her up, but you don't need to own one. "I'd just love it if my man took me to a lesson at a precision-driving course," she says. For every interest a woman has, there's a fun class the two of you can take. Look around, and think this: She doesn't care what you have. She cares what you both can share.

Quirks countYou could buy Haro flowers, but you're better off buying her cheese. "I have a cheese addiction," she says -- and your gift would show that you know about it. (Oh, and she also loves tummy rubs.) "Pay attention to the little things. They matter to us the most."