EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW IF YOU HAVE A SMALL PENIS

You've probably held onto the idea that an enormous penis makes you more of a man ever since you were an insecure middle schooler holding a ruler up to your Johnson, terrified you didn't measure up. Odds are also good that anxiety hasn't subsided in your adult years; it's probably created a complex, if anything.

If you're not packing something you're confident about, revealing yourself to a woman for the first time can be dreadful. But, guess what? She's got insecurities, too! So, stop trying to hide yourself—only having sex with the lights off or under the sheets—and relax. We've consulted with top experts and referred to the latest research to help you better cope with any shortcomings you think you have, provide you with tips and advice for better sex, and advice on strengthening your body image so you can have better relationships (that includes the one with yourself!).

HOW THE STATS STACK UP 

- "Only 6% of women rate their partner’s penis size as small and 84 percent say they’re 'very satisfied' with their lover’s size," says Jessica O’Reilly, Ph.D., sexologist and founder of The Sexual Pro Series Webinars. This UCLA and Cal State LA research also found, in contrast, that only 55% of men reported a similar level of satisfaction with their own size.
- Always questioning if your penis is average? Research that included tens of thousands of men found an average erect penis is 5.16 inches long and 3.6 inches flaccid.
- Shorter men are less likely to be satisfied with their penis size than taller men based on self-report studies, O'Reilly says.

THE TOP 10 QUESTIONS MEN ASK ABOUT SEX

Imagine you had an hour to sit at a bar next to a beautiful woman—who also happened to be a sex expert—and ask her all of the questions you wanted to know about women and sex without being slapped (or judged). Minus the beer, we did just that.

Meet your professor—Emily Morse, sexologist, host of the top downloaded sex and relationship advice podcast Sex with Emily and co-founder of Emily & Tony.

Since she doesn’t have time to sit with each and every one of you, Morse divulged the top 10 questions men ask her about women and sex. Check ‘em out here—in order of most popular to least—with her candid answers so you’ll know exactly how to proceed with the women in your life.

1. Why can’t she orgasm?

If your girlfriend can’t orgasm during intercourse, she’s not alone—80% of women don’t reach orgasm through intercourse alone; most women require an assist from extra clitoral stimulation. To top that off, one in three women has trouble reaching orgasm at all. There could be many reasons, and none of them have to do with your sexual prowess. She might be feeling stressed or anxious, she may have low self-esteem or she may be just plain inexperienced with her own body. It’s all about a woman knowing her own hot spots, and once she figures them out, she can show you how she gets there. Another fun way to tilt the orgasm odds is to try out a sex toy. Incorporating a vibrator for extra clitoral stimulation during intercourse will definitely increase the odds of her having an orgasm. 

2. How can we reignite the passion we had in the beginning?

When you first start dating a new person, every moment is sexy and thrilling because it’s uncharted territory. As the relationship develops, it becomes more routine, and therefore more boring. Once it becomes boring, the sex can become obsolete.

Sex is amazing at the beginning because there’s still mystery, excitement, and spontaneity, the foundation to keeping great sex alive. Planning things like date nights and new activities will help keep the relationship fresh, interesting, and sexy.  And as unsexy as it sounds, set aside “sex time” for you and your partner to try new things. Make a sex bucket list of what you’d both like to try and cross something off the list every week or month.  Be adventurous, be kinky, share your fantasies with each other and then make them happen. You’d be surprised what a new toy or change of scenery can do. Chances are, the spark hasn’t actually gone out; it’s just that no one’s been fanning the flames. 

3. How can I get her to have sex with me more often?

You’re never going to “get” anyone to have more sex with you if you look at it as a one-way street. You want more sex, and you expect your girlfriend or wife to come along for your pleasure ride. If you really want more sex from your partner, tailor the sex to her needs, instead of focusing all your attention on your pleasure. 

While it’s common for couples to have mismatched libidos, it doesn’t necessarily mean she doesn’t like sex as much you do, she just might not need it as often. A woman’s sex drive is tied to her brain more than her nether regions. This means she needs to be warmed up for action. Foreplay starts after the last orgasm; so if you’re feeling that she’s never in the mood, work on turning her on. Send her a flirty text message and tell her how good she felt last time you were together and what you’re going to do the next time you see her. Speaking of foreplay, kissing is another overlooked way to get things going and it’s often the first thing to slip by the wayside in long-term relationships. Lock lips to enhance intimacy and connection. 

The last thing you want to do is to blame or pressure her, the more you push, the less she’ll want to give which won’t result in more action for you. You get more sex with honey than with vinegar. Sometimes couples just aren’t matched up sexually no matter what you do, so it might take compromise on both parts to set a sex schedule that works for both of you.

4. How can I get her to be more adventurous in bed?

Approach the issue playfully. Make it a game, instead of a game changer. Start an open discussion about things that you’d like to try in the bedroom. Encourage your partner to write down things that turn her on and you’ll do the same. Then swap lists and read to each other in bed. Watching porn together is another fun way to get inspiration and to warm your partner up to trying new things. If she sees it acted out on screen, she might find herself feeling more aroused and less intimidated.  If your partner is more vanilla, start slowly and carefully. If she loves missionary sex, suggest new positions, like girl-on-top. With each small move she makes on the “adventure” scale, give her positive feedback to let her know how much these things turn you on. 

5. Sometimes I finish too quickly, what’s wrong with me?

There’s nothing wrong with you. It sounds like you’re up close and personal with the number-one sexual issue that men face today—premature ejaculation. Most men have experienced this at least a few times in their lives, but for others it’s a persistent nuisance almost every time they have intercourse. PE is often attributed to a number of factors including anxiety, psychological issues, or a variety of medical conditions.

The good news is that you can work on it and improve your ability to control your erections. You can become a champion in bed just by doing Kegel exercises to strengthen your pubococcygeus (PC) muscles , which can help you last longer during sex. Reducing anxiety is key, so consider trying yoga or meditation. Fleshlight makes a great stamina-training unit where you can incorporate the "stop-start" method during masturbation, training yourself to control your ejaculation. Or you can try the only FDA-approved treatment for PE, a mild delay spray called Promescent. Use it 10 minutes before sex and double your staying power. No matter what you do, it’s best to communicate the anxiety that you’re experiencing about this issue to your partner and your doctor. Just talking about it will alleviate some of the stress and shame you feel and put you on road to finding the right solution. 

6. How can I get my partner to have anal sex?

Anal sex is the “it” thing to get your partner to do. Yes, it’s naughty and a little bit taboo, but when done wrong, anal can be a real pain-in-the-ass (pun intended) and an absolute nightmare on the receiving end. Whether she had a bad experience, or knows someone who had a bad experience, the majority of women are predisposed to fear anal sex. Your goal here is to make this the most pleasurable experience possible for her.

First, approach the topic by talking about new things you’d like to try in bed. Let her know how much the idea of anal sex turns you on, without being pushy. If you force the issue, you run the risk of her going into lockdown mode.  If your partner is into idea, start with foreplay to get her warmed up and relaxed, a requirement for her pleasure. Start small by gently rubbing around the area during sex or when you’re going down on her. You can also try using your tongue to stimulate the sensitive nerve endings that are rarely explored. If she feels comfortable with these initial steps, you can move on to inserting a digit, then two, and so on. There should be communication happening every step of the way with anal sex—before, during, and after. Especially if it’s the first time or first few times she’s having anal sex, ask her about her pleasure and comfort levels throughout the experience. And do not forget the lube. There is no such thing as too much lube when it comes to anal sex.

7. How can I improve my oral sex skills?

Think about something you excel at and chances are, you rock it because you really enjoy doing it. The same goes for giving great oral. The best way to be great at oral sex is to learn to like it. Or at least act like you do. That will help her feel more comfortable and then you will find you actually do enjoy it.

The biggest mistakes guys make when performing oral is going straight for her genitals. Don’t dive right in like it’s a pie-eating contest! She’s not warmed up yet, and it might even hurt her if she’s not aroused. The best thing to do is to tease her and draw out the experience before you even start going down. Plant kisses on her abdomen and thighs. Use your hands to gently massage the area surrounding her vagina to heighten her anticipation. When you finally do make contact, start off slowly with slight licks and gentle caresses to warm her up. Use both the tip and flat part of your tongue to flick and lick. Women tend to prefer circular motions, but experiment with different speeds and pressure, and pay attention to how she responds. If you’re feeling adventurous, try tracing the alphabet with your tongue, or lightly humming to create a slight vibrating sensation. You can also throw your fingers into the mix to try a little G-spot stimulation along with your tongue. As she gets closer to climax, keep doing exactly what you’re doing. Once she’s had her Big O, return to the gentle kisses around her outer labia and thighs before popping your head up to experience the praise for your hard work.

8. How can I have a threesome?

Depending on the situation, threesomes can either be extremely fun or really dangerous for the relationship. If one of the two people in question is your significant other, proceed with caution. Make sure that you and your significant other are in a good place—emotionally, sexually or otherwise. If you’re not strong in any of those areas, the threesome could be the straw that breaks the relationship’s back. Preexisting jealousy issues and low self-esteem are signs you should abort the mission. Only couples with a solid healthy relationship and adventurous sexual tastes should attempt to ride the tricycle. If you and your partner meet the criteria, the next step is introducing the idea in a non-threatening way. Just like anal sex, if you mess up the intro, the door will slam in your face. Initiate a conversation about both of your fantasies. When you bring up the idea, make her the center of your threesome scenario. Talk about how sexy it would be to see her with another woman. She will certainly feel more desired and this will squash any insecurities she has about you wanting to be with another woman.

After this, you and your partner need to lay down some ground rules, like whether you’ll invite a friend or a guest star, what are the no-no’s, how you want the night to end, and so on. If you’re both open to the experience, and honest with each other, you can both get the most out of your ménage a trios.

9. Is my penis too small?

Let’s start with the facts: Scientifically speaking, a penis is not considered to be small if it is more than three inches in length. That being said, only about 35% of men believe that the size of their penis is sufficient. That’s a lot of penis anxiety. In contrast, a 2012 Scottish study found that 60% of female participants said that penis size made no difference to their sexual pleasure. If you’re still feeling less than average (which, for the record, is between 5.6-6.2 inches in length when hard), then here are a  few tips to make the most of what you’ve got:

Amp up the foreplay: Women love a man who is good with his hands and mouth. If she has several orgasms before the sex even starts, you’ll still come out on top, no matter what you’re packing.

Switch up the positions: Avoid positions like missionary which might not be as orgasmic for her with your size, and instead try cowgirl position, which allows for optimal penetration and provides her with control of pace and depth.

10. Sometimes I can’t finish during sex; what’s wrong with me?

Some guys finish quickly and others can’t finish at all. Delayed ejaculation is when you just can’t seem to ejaculate during intercourse no matter how hard you try and no matter how long you have sex. You’re there, she’s there, you’re hard, the sex feels great, and yet an hour might go by and you’re no closer to crossing that finish line.

The frustrating thing about delayed ejaculation is that the majority of men of who suffer from it can still masturbate to completion. It’s only when a partner gets thrown in the mix that they become unwilling marathon men. The causes vary widely, from health issues, to medication, to psychological issues like anxiety or depression. This disorder is still considered somewhat rare, and is not completely understood by psychologists and sex therapists. But that doesn’t mean you should ignore the problem and continue having intercourse sans orgasms forever. Experiment with mutual masturbation and when you know you’re about to ejaculate you can move inside her and release. If this still doesn’t work and you’re having consistent trouble ejaculating during sex, it’s important to get help from a professional. Treatment usually includes some form of therapy, whether by yourself or with your significant other (good news, though: It’s sex therapy).

How To Make A Girl Orgasm If You Have A Small Penis: How To Satisfy Her With A Small Penis

How To Make A Girl Orgasm If You Have A Small Penis: How To Satisfy Her With A Small Penis

Having a small penis is not a problem as you need to know how to perform with help of different tactics. A small penis can work wonders if used properly. Its all in your tactics, the seduction can start without the help of a penis also.

All you need is to satisfy her, you will get an orgasm no doubt but about her you can do it without penetration also. There is no hard and fast rule where you can pleasure her in a particular way. Everyone have their own style in pleasuring women.

There might be some health problem that's why achieving the right erection might be difficult. In all this you can find your way of satisfying her if you do the right steps. Some of them have a 2 inches small penis but they are masters in satisfying their women.

Learn this one technique -- simple and easy for any man to use -- and not only will sex be more pleasurable for you, but you'll instantly become a better lover than 90% of the rest of the guys on the planet. Here's how to have sex more often -- and have her thank you for it

All you need is some touching and caressing.

Good foreplay can be helpful. Just make her feel that you are there to satisfy her physically. Touch her and caress her upper parts where she wants to be touched. You can lick her if possible which would make her want more of you.

You have the girl all you need is a good technique which can satisfy her and get some orgasms. Try to satisfy her while taking a bath by touching her wet parts. You can let her know your fantasies in which you dream about her.

Try different positions which can satisfy her. These positions will help you and her to try out something different. The usual positions can be boring at times. So just for change you can try different one. Some of the positions do not require a large penis.

Having naughty talks can also be fun as you are diverting her attention. Just concentrate on getting her aroused.

Pay Close Attention Here-

Now listen carefully! Take 2 minutes to read the next page and you'll discover unusual techniques that give any woman multiple spine-tingling, electrifying, scream-your-name orgasms. There is a set of easy to follow techniques to become a master at intercourse itself -- and your woman will keep coming back for more and more. She'll be devoted to you for life. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page before it's too late and time runs out- Click Here

Now a bonus tip that you will find useful if you want to make any woman orgasm fast...There exists a secret two-step method that underground seduction masters use to make any woman orgasm literally by COMMAND: details are at this website - How to Get a Woman to Orgasm

How would you feel if the woman you are with constantly tells you that you are great in bed and she simply can not resist strongly desire you in bed? How would it make you feel to the see the ultimate feeling of satisfaction on her face every time you have sex with her? Satisfying a woman is not easy therefore if you learn the real tricks to really giving her that ultimate pleasure in bed she would become addicted to you for life. Read on to discover what these secrets are and how you can easily make her orgasm every single time...

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Use the right words- Words can mean a lot to women specially in bed therefore you must what to say and how to say it. One of the best possible ways to really get her going in bed is to tell her sensual stories and involve a lot of feeling and emotion in it. Tell the story in a way which instantly get her aroused and at the same time let her know that you are about to do something similar to her as well. You see saying this would instantly build up a lot of anticipation which would totally excite her in bed due to which she would be ready to orgasm faster than ever.

Locate her G-spot and stimulate it- If you really want her to orgasm real fast then nothing would work faster than stimulating her G-spot. You see it's a commonly known fact that the G-spot orgasms are the more pleasurable for the woman and at the same time when her G-spot is stimulated she is able to achieve an orgasm real fast. The female G-spot is right at the beginning of her vagina two to three inches from the opening of the vagina. The best way to directly stimulate this spot is to go in up and down motion instead of the standard in and out motion while you are penetrating her.

And One Last thing...

If you want to become the man of choice for ANY woman in bed, you MUST increase your sexual stamina. With just a LITTLE effort you can gain the power to last ALL night long...and in my experience, the rewards are worth their weight in orgasmic gold for the both of you!

You want to be able to make your woman squirt and shake with pleasure. You want to give her an orgasm that is out of this world. Learn more from this helpful site on how you can make her squirt today!

You can become the best she has ever had and you can make that happen now. There is help so you can master female ejaculation and be the best.

In this article we are going to discuss the FEMALE SEX-DRIVE.

And if you're a guy who'd like to discover how to increase his woman's libido and get a lot more sex, this could be the most important thing you'll ever read...

I'd like you to take a second to honestly answer the following simple questions for me:

- Have you ever experienced a time when you wanted to have sex, but your woman did not?

- Have you ever experienced an extended period of your relationship (be it weeks, months or even years) where you wanted sex, but your woman did not?

If you are like most men, you'll have answered "YES" to at least the first question and possibly the last one too. But don't worry, help is at hand.

Keep reading and it will all become clear...

When a woman's sex-drive is LOW (or a lot lower than you'd like it to be), there is usually only one reason -- a reason that most men totally miss.

You don't have to be brilliant, good-looking, or well-endowed to have her think you're a sex god... you just have to be 'dumb' enough to follow these step-by-step instructions

Have you any idea what that reason is?

In other words, do you know what the primary factor is that effects a woman's libido?

Well, the truth is that it's the QUALITY of the SEX that she is getting from her man, that most affects a woman's libido.

Said differently, if you want to increase your woman's sex-drive -- you have to give her BETTER SEX.

Much Better Sex.

The reality is that most men give their women sex that is less than satisfactory. So after a while, their women get bored of it (which is understandable) and they stop wanting to have sex.

Some of these women turn to masturbation, others CHEAT and some do both. (NOTE: A LOT of women cheat because they are desperate to find a man who can SEXUALLY SATISFY them).

So, here's the deal...

Most men give their women rubbish sex and the result is that their women have low sex-drives.

Pretty simple and it makes perfect sense when you think about it, right?

Anyway, right now I'd like to share the SECRETS to giving your woman GREAT SEX. When you apply these secrets and give her great sex -- her libido will shoot way up.

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Now you can stop premature ejaculation and start giving her amazing sex... even if you have never lasted more than 2 minutes in bed! Visit Sexual Endurance for Men

There are specific techniques that will show you exactly what to do to achieve explosive sexual stamina. To find out more visit Sex Positions to Last Longer

Not many guys are even aware of this, but the tongue is the human's body's strongest muscle. Yes, it's even more powerful than your penis, my friend. What this means is that if you master the art of pleasuring a woman with your tongue, then you will be able to please any woman you want, at any time. Oral sex ranks highly in every woman's list of carnal desires - and if you can master this tactic then you will be sexually desired everywhere you go. Read on to discover the surefire method to make a woman orgasm powerfully - by using your tongue...

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How To Give A Woman Extremely Powerful Orgasms - Make Her Squirt Using Your TONGUE!

"Lubricate Yourself". Before you get down on her, remember to quickly lubricate your tongue with saliva. It's potentially painful for her if you immediately plant your (dry) tongue inside her vagina. Be gentle now! Once your tongue is adequately lubricated, thrust it inside her, and take time to explore. While you are doing this, grab her breasts gently and finger her nipples (which should be hardened when she gets aroused). This combination of "tongue and fingers" would prove to be irresistible to her!

"Move It All About". When you're inside her, vary your tongue's firmness - be flexible for about a minute, and then rigid the next. Be unpredictable! While you are at it, get out from her vagina and start licking her clitoris (you know how to locate this, don't you?). Remember that a lot of women could only orgasm through the stimulation of the clitoris - so don't neglect this very important part of her body. Apply a little pressure on her clitoris, and make circular motions to stimulate her thoroughly. Try it - this tactic works every time if done correctly.

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You WILL give your girl MIND BLOWING orgasms with this techniqueso she won't be letting you get out of bed. Don't schedule any other activities for the day after.

Male Orgasm - 8 Things Most Guys Don’t Know

How long does the average orgasm last? What kind of distance can a man get from a forceful ejaculation? How do penis vitamins and minerals affect the ability to experience sexual gratification? While almost all guys know what an orgasm feels like, they have little idea of what is going on behind the scenes. Men can test their penis knowledge with these 8 fascinating facts about the penis.

1. Orgasm and ejaculation - not the same thing

Most people - men and women included - assume that an orgasm and male ejaculation are one and the same. Actually, the male orgasm generally takes place several seconds before the ejaculation itself; and in fact, men can experience an orgasm without ejaculating at all - good news for guys who were wondering whether they can come multiple times.

2. Orgasm statistics

The vast majority of men - at least 75% - achieve orgasm on a regular basis, either through masturbation or during intercourse. On the other hand, only about 50% of women achieve consistent orgasms. On the other hand, men believe that they have given their partner an orgasm about 85% of the time - so either a lot of guys are fooling themselves, or their partners are good at faking it.

3. Ejaculatory distance

For guys who are all about competition, here is an interesting figure. A highly aroused male can ejaculate up to 28 feet - at least, this is the longest distance recorded.

4. Women aren’t the only ones who can have multiple orgasms

Guys often envy women for their ability to come more than once during a session, but the truth is that with a little patience and a lot of stimulation, men can do it too. They may or may not ejaculate a second (or third, or fourth) time, but with the right handling, men can keep going longer than they might think.

5. Recovery time

While younger men are more likely to ejaculate more than once in a short space of time, the refractory period for guys after a single ejaculation is between 1 minute and one hour. The ability to go more than once depends a lot on physical fitness and overall health, so men who are going for volume should eat right and get plenty of regular exercise.

6. Guys have a G-spot, too

Men can achieve orgasm through g-spot stimulation, as can women, although this special spot may be a bit more difficult to get to. The small, marble-sized bump is located about 2 inches or so inside the anal opening, and stimulating it can lead to intense sexual pleasure.

7. Premature ejaculation

Men often worry about ending the session too soon through premature ejaculation, which is typically viewed as coming in under two minutes. On the other hand, this is really a matter of perception; some couples think that a quickie is just fine, while others would prefer to draw out the moment. In order to make it last longer, guys can experiment with various techniques and positions and learn to control their orgasms.

8. Vitamins and minerals may improve penis sensitivity

The erogenous skin covering the penis plays a huge role in the experience of sexual pleasure. Circulation, skin tone and texture, and the number of healthy nerve endings located under the dermal tissue has everything to do with penis sensation, and keeping these factors in working order can affect the ability of a man to enjoy sex. Treating the organ with a penis vitamin formula (most health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) can help to keep the skin well-hydrated, support nerve tissue health, keep away infections that can cause inflammation and soreness, and give the skin a smooth, supple even tone and more attractive appearance. A penis vitamin crème that can be applied daily works best for optimum results.

27 Sex Facts You Need in Your Life

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Even if you consider yourself a total sexpert, there is always something new to learn about sex. From all the crazy ways it can improve your health to the downright weird things that happen during the act, read on for everything you could possibly want to know about getting busy. Plus, we promise it will be a lot more fun than sex ed ever was.

1. Sex reduces stress. On top of obvious, ahem, physical benefits, research shows that getting busy calms nerves, lowers blood pressure, and reduces stress. Grab your partner before that big presentation at work—in one study, participants who had sex before a public speaking experiment were the least stressed.

Take our survey to help us learn more sex facts that we'll share in an upcoming issue! 

2. It can make you feel better when you're sick, too. Studies show that arousal and orgasm boost your immune system. And while this means sex could be good for you when you're feeling a little under the weather, definitely know when to opt for some chicken soup and some sleep over a little sexual healing.

3. Lube makes it easier to orgasm. If you're having trouble getting off, all your problems might be solved with one simple addition to the bedroom: lube. Nearly 50 percent of men and women who used lube said it made it easier to have an orgasm, according to a study out of Indiana University's Center for Sexual Health Promotion. Easiest sex hack ever.

4. Speaking of lube, you can use coconut oil for that. If you're a health buff, chances are you already know that coconut oil can be used for just about everything. Another thing to add to the list of its many functions: a great DIY lubricant. It's all-natural, long-lasting and even anti-fungal. Who knew?

5. Lesbians have the most orgasms. Sorry, straight ladies—when it comes to crossing the finish line, lesbians are coming in first. A study that looked at the relationship between sexual orientation and orgasm occurrence found that heterosexual women climaxed 61.6 percent of the time, while homosexual women climaxed 74.7 percent of the time and bisexual women climaxed 58 percent of the time.

6. Other random characteristics can up your orgasm odds, too. Who else joins lesbians on the list of those having the most orgasms? Red heads, Republicans, Android users, and older women, to name a few. 

7. Semen is low in calories. Thirty-six calories in a teaspoon, to be exact. Just in case that was a concern of yours.

8. Post-gym is a REALLY good time to get busy. Blood flow to your genital region is higher after a workout, according to one study, making your sexual function go off the charts. Not to mention, your testosterone levels skyrocket while you exercise, so you'll definitely be in the mood. 

9. Speaking of working out…some people get off WHILE doing it. Orgasms are elusive enough as it is, but some lucky people report exercised-induced ones. They can thank repetitious core movements for that one—and some serious good fortune.  

10. Some states are kinkier than others. Wyoming, Alaska, Vermont, West Virginia and Oregon are the top kink-curious states—at least according to what they search on Pornhub. California, surprisingly, came in dead last—but maybe they're expressing their kink outside their search history.

11. Almost 31 percent of guys have faked an orgasm. A survey from Time Out New York found that guys are in on the trick, too. Time to start second-guessing everything you thought you knew. 

12. Love makes for better sex. A recent study presented at the annual meeting of the American Sociological Association found that the most mind-blowing sex comes with being in love with your partner. 

13. Condoms don't actually affect pleasure all that much. Next time a guy complains about using a condom serve him up this study that found men and women enjoy sex just as much with condoms as they do without. In fact, condoms might even make sex better, thanks to new, pleasure-enhancing innovations.

14. Traveling is prime time for one night stands. HostelBookers.com surveyed over 11,000 of its users about their "juiciest travel sex secrets" and found that a whopping 52 percent of men and 41 percent of women have had one-night stands while traveling. Get it, world travelers.

15. Hooking up can lead to marriage. You might think that hooking up and settling down are mutually exclusive, but it turns out that one third of married couples were originally a hookup, according to a report from the National Marriage Project. Okay, so every one night stand might not be marriage material, but hey—don't count out the possibility.

16. Nipplegasms exist. Add this to the list of crazy orgasms you probably can only dream about. But here's how it works: Nipple stimulation releases oxytocin, which can cause the uterine and vaginal contractions associated with orgasm. This brings more blood flow to the genitals and, for some lucky women, that can mean an orgasm.

17. Sex can lead to more regular cycles. If you have period trouble, sex should be on the top of your list of cures to try (okay, barring consulting an actual doctor). Researchers at Stanford and Columbia Universities found that women who had sex at least once a week had more regular cycles.

18. You feel less pain during sex. Ever wonder why things like spanking and hair-pulling go from bad pain to good pain when brought into the bedroom? That's because your pain threshold can increase significantly during arousal, according to a study published in the Journal of Sex Research.   

19. One in 5 people use their smart phones during sex. Yes, you read that correctly. During sex. At least, adults between 18 and 34 years old do, according to a survey by Harris Interactive for Jumio. Here's hoping that they weren't using their phones to live-tweet.

20. Sex is a great addition to your regular workout. You've probably heard that sex is a great form of exercise—and then heard that fact debunked. Okay, so you won't be shedding any serious weight on a fitness routine of sex alone, but Canadian researchers found that the level of intensity during sex was practically two-thirds that of exercise. AKA, the perfect supplement to your usual workout.

21. More people prefer coffee to sex. Researchers conducted the survey of over 7,000 and found that 51 percent of them said they could go longer without sex than they could go without coffee. Clearly those people don't know that orgasms can be a great morning pick-me-up, too—or maybe they just really love their Starbucks. (We understand.)

22. People in New Mexico are having the longest sex sessions. Spreadsheet, a relationship app created to help users monitor their performance in the bedroom, ranked states by their staying power between the sheets. The states with most stamina: New Mexico, West Virginia, Idaho, South Carolina, and Missouri.

23. You can induce sex dreams by your sleep position. If you're not dreaming about Channing Tatum as much as you'd like, you might want to switch up how you sleep.  found that people who slept face down on their stomach with their arms stretched above their head had more sexual dreams—including ones about affairs with celebrities. Bring it on. 

24. Socks might be the weird key to your orgasm. Okay, maybe socks won't magically trigger an orgasm, but they do solve a common orgasm-blocking problem, according to a Dutch study. While measuring orgasms, they found that many of their female participants were uncomfortable due to cold feet. After they gave them socks, the percentage of those reaching orgasm rose from 50 to 80 percent.

25. It may cure your headache. Before reaching for that pain reliever, you might want to try an all-natural approach. One study found that 60 percent of migraine sufferers reported that sex helped ease their pain. Yep, it's that good.

26. An apple a day can boost your sex life. According to one study, women who ate the fruit once a day had higher sexual quality of life. Plus, apples are delicious, so it's a win-win. 

27. Having an orgasm can make pillow talk better. Well, obviously. But research actually found that post-sex communication is more intimate and open ifyou climaxed. We call that motivation.